BERPRASANGKA BAIK KEPADA ALLAH
(Semoga tulisan ini bermanfaat bagi seluruh kbh, terutama untuk diriku sendiri)
Dalam sbuah hadits qudsi, Rasulllah SAW bersabda:
قَالَ اللَّهُ أَنَا عِنْدَ ظَنِّ عَبْدِي بِي * رواه البخارى في كتاب التوحيد
"Allah berfirman: Aku seperti persangkaan hamba-Ku terhadap-Ku"
Setiap kali menjumpai masalah selayaknya kita berpikiran positif dan berprasangka baik kepada Allah bahwa, atas idzin-Nya, permasalahan itu akan bisa teratasi. Tugas kita adalah berusaha mengatasi masalah itu, disertai doa kepada Allah seraya menyerahkan hasilnya kepada-Nya.
Saya terkesan dengan semangat Nick Vujicic yang walaupun tidak mempunyai tangan dan kaki, tetapi tetap gembira dan semangat menjalani hidupnya. Beberapa kisahnya bisa ditonton di:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?
Terkait dengan menghadapi masalah itu, beberapa bulan yang lalu budhe Ninik pernah mengirimkan sms yang di-forward dari sms-nya om Gatot. Smsnya begini:
The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
The Loser sees a problem for every answer.
The Loser sees a problem for every answer.
Artinya kira-kira begini (semoga tidak keliru), "Pemenang selalu melihat jawaban dari setiap masalah, sedangkan pecundang selalu melihat suatu masalah dari setiap jawaban".
Mutiara kata seperti ini sering kali mengingatkan kita untuk selalu bersemangat dalam mengatasi segala masalah dalam hidup kita. Sayang sekali, sms itu terhapus karena keterbatasan memori hp untuk menyimpan sms. Saya coba mencari di internet menggunakan fasilitas mesin pencari.
Alhamdulillah akhirnya ketemu juga, bahkan lebih lengkap seperti di bawah ini:
WINNERS VERSUS LOSERS !!!?The Winner is
always part of the answer;
The Loser is always part of the problem.
The Winner always has a program;
The Loser always has an excuse.
The Winner says, "Let me do it for you";
The Loser says, "That is not my job."
The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
The Loser sees a problem for every answer.
The Winner says, "It may be difficult but it is possible";
The Loser says, "It may be possible but it is too difficult."
When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, "I was wrong";
When a Loser makes a mistake, he says, "It wasn't my fault."
A Winner makes commitments;
A Loser makes promises.
Winners have dreams;
Losers have schemes.
Winners say, "I must do something";
Losers say, "Something must be done."
Winners are a part of the team;
Losers are apart from the team.
Winners see the gain;
Losers see the pain.
Winners see possibilities;
Losers see problems.
Winners believe in win-win;
Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.
Winners see the potential;
Losers see the past.
Winners are like a thermostat;
Losers are like thermometers.
Winners choose what they say;
Losers say what they choose.
Winners use hard arguments but soft words;
Losers use soft arguments but hard words.
Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;
Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.
Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you would not
want them to do to you";
Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you."
Winners make it happen;
Losers let it happen.
Winners plan and prepare to win.
The key word is preparation.
The Loser is always part of the problem.
The Winner always has a program;
The Loser always has an excuse.
The Winner says, "Let me do it for you";
The Loser says, "That is not my job."
The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
The Loser sees a problem for every answer.
The Winner says, "It may be difficult but it is possible";
The Loser says, "It may be possible but it is too difficult."
When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, "I was wrong";
When a Loser makes a mistake, he says, "It wasn't my fault."
A Winner makes commitments;
A Loser makes promises.
Winners have dreams;
Losers have schemes.
Winners say, "I must do something";
Losers say, "Something must be done."
Winners are a part of the team;
Losers are apart from the team.
Winners see the gain;
Losers see the pain.
Winners see possibilities;
Losers see problems.
Winners believe in win-win;
Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.
Winners see the potential;
Losers see the past.
Winners are like a thermostat;
Losers are like thermometers.
Winners choose what they say;
Losers say what they choose.
Winners use hard arguments but soft words;
Losers use soft arguments but hard words.
Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;
Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.
Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you would not
want them to do to you";
Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you."
Winners make it happen;
Losers let it happen.
Winners plan and prepare to win.
The key word is preparation.
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